Dr. David B. Hawkins

The Apostle Paul says, “In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12: 18).

Taking responsibility is a fundamental issue, and struggling in this area leads to additional problems for couples.

“It seems like things have been mediocre for so long, I don’t know if I am expecting too much.”

Couples who use stonewalling to avoid issues are really creating more problems in the long run.

When we marry, we agree to accept each other with all thier foibles—and we all have them.

Most couples have “hot issues” they would rather not talk about. These are the topics that bring instant tension.

The third eye is that part of us that watches what we say and do. It is an ability that we cultivate to watch not only what we say and do, but to...

It has been said that we cannot be fully aware or appreciative of others unless we are first aware and appreciative of ourselves.

Planting seeds of kindness will bring a harvest of good fruit to the marriage.

It is critical that every couple be able to recognize when they are no longer in a reconciling mood and take appropriate precautionary action.

You don’t have to attend every fight you’re invited to. Think about it. People invite you to a fight every day.

Wounds happen, but they can be healed. They cannot be healed in a hostile environment.

Consider some of these tools for giving up power struggles and asking for what you need.

Every couple experiences “hot spots” in their relationship. The wise couple leans into them, learning more about their mates and repairing...

Relationships are built day-in, day-out on the small gestures that convey a deep sense of connection to your mate.

Have you been ready to give up on your marriage? Getting along is easier than you think.

“We’ve practiced communication skills,” Tawnya complained, “but we still fight like cats and dogs."