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A Word With You - Oct. 28, 2010

  • 2010 Oct 28


Making it Through the Pain

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Our three-year-old grandson's been around long enough to show us that he's gonna be the one who lives on the edge, tries daring things, and is basically a physical kind of guy. Consequently, he may be on a first name basis with the folks in the emergency room. We hope not, but you know, he's already visited there more than once in his short career. The first time he got a bad cut on his lip from a fall - lots of bleeding, run to the emergency room, stitches. This medical stuff was all new to him. Oh, listen he fought it. It took four people to hold down this little tiger while the stitches were put in. It was massively traumatic for everybody involved - including my wife who was one of those E. R. wrestlers that night. The second time was when another fall caused a big cut in our little guy's chin. Lots of bleeding, run to the emergency room, stitches. Get a pattern here? Less fighting this time. Oh, it wasn't easy, but it wasn't as bad as the first time. Who knows, pretty soon he may be helping them put the stitches in!

We figured out two reasons that the second time was a little less traumatic than the first time for our grandson. First, he knew from experience that the pain of this process didn't last forever. Secondly, he knew from his first time around that he got a reward when this was over - let's hear it for popsicles and stickers!

Maybe there's something we can all gain from a little boy's emergency room experiences with pain - maybe it can even help you get through the painful time that you're going through right now. What were those two things that helped you get through a process that's really hurting you? You know it won't last forever. You know there's a reward when this is over.

God's great ambassador, Paul, learned those secrets of making it through the pain, and he had a post-graduate degree in suffering - beatings, imprisonments, attacks on his reputation, death threats, excruciating physical conditions. This is a man who's got the credentials to talk to us about the great hurts of life. And he does in our word for today from the Word of God in 2 Corinthians 4:16-18.

With all he's enduring, Paul says: "We do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal."

Now, you can lose your health, your business, your marriage, you can lose people you love and still not lose heart. How? First, remember these four letters - TTSP. Yep, they stand for, "This too shall pass." Your ordeal is, in Paul's words, "momentary" and "temporary" against the backdrop of your eternity in heaven. It won't always be this way. Secondly, think about the reward for finishing your painful assignment faithfully - "eternal glory." At the end of this, you've got something really good that you will have forever. One other thing that our grandson may ultimately learn about the pain of the doctor's procedures - the purpose of the pain is to make him better. That's the purpose of yours, too. To make you more like Jesus and more of a helper and healer for hurting people who are all around you. The relatively short duration of your pain, the reward you'll get for bearing it, the good it can produce in your life - none of those take away the pain, but they make it bearable. They give it meaning, and they make you more bearable, too.

What you're going through has an end, it has a reward, and it has a point. So you don't have to fight it. The doctor who's got your case - Dr. Jesus - loves you deeply, holds you tightly, and He knows exactly what's He's doing.

© (c) Ronald P. Hutchcraft
Distributed by Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc.

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